A or B

Choose between family A or family B. This happened when I have my dinner with my mom at roadside food stalls.

Family A, okay lorh, see jiu know that they are come from above average family. Two daughters, husband and wife. They almost finished their dinner, then the husband took out a cigarette and smoked. Well, two daughters each play their handphone, I think they are like age 6 and one with age 4 while the mother sapu all the remaining foods from the table. Zero communication until the father "shake his head to left",  mom sucked the last drop of milo, then go. (I almost laughed out liao, they can interpret like this one)

Family B, okay lorh, see jiu know that they are perhaps gotta work hard for living. Father with dark skin, very dirty clothes, with pouch on his waist. Two daughters also age almost the same, with wife and I think is his' mother-in-law(because his wife and the aunty look exactly the same one). Okay, husband starts the conversation,"  妹妹,你要乐乐吗?fishball?" while cuddling his daughter like a doll.Then took out 50 bucks note and handed to his wife and said, "don't order ice drink okay!"He even veryyyy politely asked the foreigner to clean the table and politely said "thank you."While dining, they talked a lot, two daughters played paper rock stone.

(Don't you think I eat very long mieee?)

Hahahahaha!

Okay lar, yes indeed this happened. I think I have been judging one person by their look a lot. I don't see family B's husband can be that loving and caring. If I never heard his conversation, I will categorize him as"rude ones". Of course you can see both families also love their children lorh, just how the parents choose to create the atmosphere. Be it quiet,fast, efficient, high-tech or be it easy, loving, happily, and low pace?

I think if I were family B's wife, everyday is gotta be valentine's day, the little things that care.

Learning curve

Sometimes the only way to learn is to take risks and make mistakes,

and sometimes the most important lessons in life are the ones we learn the hard way.

10.10

Waking up on mystery,

Thought I was fine alone.

It's just because I didn't know,

You are my favorite thing I love.

Simple things that mean most to me.

One day

One day, I know that I can't control everything in my life.

Whether good or bad, I must face it all with my heart.

(:

crisis of faith

I saw a disabled old man walked just in front me when I was driving to meet my cousins. :'(

He was wearing drypers, he was unstable when walking, and he was alone.

Questions swirled through my mind. Thinking of how his family raise him up all this years, how he go through this, how?! and why? why him? why choose him?

I guess it was a crisis of faith.

Vampire Diaries

Really, the reason why Vampire Diaries always make me cry is because of their songs played!!

:'(

1. Come home by OneRepublic ft Sara

2. Longest night by Howie Day

3. Breath again by Sara Bareilles

4. I need to know by Kris Allen

5. All this time by OneRepublic.:) *recent favourite* lyrics are great.!

6. Don't you remember by Adele

Without music life would be a mistake. :))

Cheers. xo